Am I Qualified and Registered?

 

Absolutely not – and this is why. I believe that “the system” is set up to entrap clients in victimhood, to create clients for life, to ensure that they are never empowered. And I believe that qualifications that emanate from accredited training programs are designed to condition therapists into this agenda, and that a registration is nothing more than a certificate of conformity that ensure their compliance – whether they like it or not.


Conversely my objective is to see clients heal quickly, cost-effectively, safely and in a way that empowers them for life (and eliminates any further reliance on therapists, including myself). I'm ruffling a few feathers in the process, it would appear.....

 

So what are my real Qualifications?

Life Coaching


Formal Qualifications include 11 O levels, 4 A levels, a degree in Civil Engineering, various certificates in Adventure Training and Instruction, I’m a graduate of the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst and the Royal School of Military Engineering, and I have an MBA in International Business Strategy.

 

Hard Experience But all of this is nothing compared with 25 years spent with a highly functioning Narcissist (my opinion – she refuses to seek a formal diagnosis for obvious reasons) – who was a very bright Barrister specialising in Crime.  I am entirely self-taught – which has given me free rein to explore healing modalities to resolve my own trauma, which I have subsequently used and honed further with clients (all victims of narcissistic abuse at the hands of narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths). 

 

Trauma Informed plus Military Doctrine I am the only Coach I know specialising in this field who also has a background in the forces, and who encompasses the Principles of War adapted for the psychological warfare waged by Cluster Bs. It is effective – I myself used it to force my now ex to agree our divorce financial settlement out of court. Yep – unheard of!

 

The Battle is Real The side effect of this is that I now terrify narcissists who will routinely try and silence me, cancel me, stop me from working this magic by whatever means they can. It’s all part of the process – they expose themselves and quickly realise that they have bitten off more than they can chew. 


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Phototherapy


My foray into phototherapy was entirely separate – I’ve been interested in photography from the age of 15. I am entirely self-taught, and as someone who is mildly colour-blind, I look for something else in my photos – texture in inanimate objects, soul and personality in the living.

 

I returned to photography big time following lockdown for my own therapy, this time exploring a new genre – Urbex (exploring and photographing abandoned buildings). This brought me in contact with models keen to add Urbex photos to their own portfolios. In getting to know them, their stories and motivations it became clear that many were using phototherapy to overcome rape, sexual abuse and trauma. I started to introduce some coaching into my photography to assist in their healing, which developed into a more formal phototherapy modality, and I continue to expand this further – particularly amongst the awakened community who see it as an opportunity to offload 3D baggage and instead explore (and express) 5D values and mindsets as part of their accelerating journey. It is powerful stuff.


Phototherapy to Resolve Trauma from Sexual Abuse

 

I started to see a pattern in my Coaching clients who were victims of rape and sexual abuse – they also had a penchant for BDSM, something that I never quite understood. At the same time, many of my muses were asking me to explore Shibari with them. The connection was made, and I thus embarked on understanding the psychology between five key areas – sexual abuse trauma, BDSM, Shibari, Adventure Training and the need to express and reclaim a healthy self-identity. I started to experiment with phototherapy in this niche – expanding my competencies, my experience and various therapeutic techniques To this day I do not know of any other practitioner who combines a deep understanding of trauma resolution and coaching with phototherapy to provide a service focussed on this kind of complex therapy. 


Boosting the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine

 

As society endures the intense spiritual war underway, and goes through the ensuing excruciating growing pains of evolution that it is sparking, so is my work increasingly focused on promoting the Divine Masculine and Feminine with clients. Helping people reconnect with their soul, their deeper life’s purpose, their role. Achieving a better balance between the Yin & Yang – invariably:


  • helping ladies disconnect from their wounded masculinity and instead reconnect with their Divine Femininity – their sensuality, power to nurture, discipline in self-care, connection to other ladies, a better understanding of women’s cycles and the emotions that that precipitates. 
  • and helping men step back into their Divine Masculine, to reclaim a role that many feel that has been taken from them – a desire to act, to protect, but in a way that allows them to feel fully connected with their own Divine Feminine (a deep connection with emotions, a confidence in being vulnerable, an eagerness to communicate authentically).